When life is feeling out of control, trying to figure out how to get some quick relief can feel just as overwhelming.  Here are some quick tips to get yourself on more solid footing. Stop saying “yes” when you should be saying “no.” Stop saying “no” when you should be saying “hell, yes.” Do it NOW, not tomorrow. Be kind to yourself. Be kind to others. Focus on adding value, not being right. Commit to playing to your strengths whenever and as much as possible. Find a way. Forgive someone because it helps YOU feel better. Unplug.  You need a place of quiet to hear yourself think.  Otherwise, you’ll blink…